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V Stinnette's avatar

Elsa, having just been through a difficult year, (nothing like poor Ed’s), I totally get why he’s silent. There were and still are times ‘I just can’t!’

It takes a long time to heal. A time to just sit and pet my dog. A time to reflect. A time to work through my anger. A time to think. A time to adjust to my new life. A time to cry. There’s so much and I’m sure he’s feeling it all. The fears. The loss. And no one knows how long this part of the process takes. We’re all individuals. We all process differently. I imagine he is just exhausted.

Anyhow, Ed will surface when he’s ready. He’s well aware of how much you care. ❤️

Susanne's avatar

Hi Elsa

I learned a long time ago our own mind’s can sometimes be our worst enemy because when there’s silence like this we always start assuming the worst case scenario.

Betrayal, what did I do wrong, I worked so hard for nothing, they didn’t like or appreciate me after all and so on.

These are scenarios of what I think could be going on. I don’t think it’s you or personal at all.

Scenario 1

I also imagine he’s mentally exhausted and/or he’s kind of lost in his own solitude that he doesn’t even realize or know a full week has gone by already.

Scenario 2

He also may have slept a great deal over the last week and again, doesn’t realize a full week went by.

Scenario 3

He also could have felt so empty by this point, especially, because he lived in nature and with his dog for so long before this fiasco, that he needs time to commune with nature to get or feel grounded again and enjoy the companionship of his dog before he even starts to feel human again. His heart or chi needs fill up a bit before he has anything give……as in, communicate with people……including even his daughter or dear friend.

I could be totally wrong. I’m only talking from my personal experiences. Of course, everyone is different.

I’d just wait a while. As difficult as that is.

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